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Coffee Tour du Jour

This post marks the retirement of the old Defiant Wellness fitness site. Now I simply post an occassional photo of my Moto rides and the pursuit of a good cup of coffee. Most of the old blogs have been archived, though a small selection of non-fitness essays have been updated and remain. I’ve also deleted…
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Where have I been?

Yesterday I received an e-mail from a subscriber named Brian. He was wondering what happened to me. “I’ve noticed your blogs have not been posted in a while. Looked forward to them. Hope all is well.” – Brian D Ironically I had been thinking about the future of this blog for quite some time. So…
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Fitness is About Life

Fitness – or not… I spend a great deal of my time surrounded by people much younger than myself, in the gym and in coffee shops. So I often lose sight of how much CrossFit has had such a positive affect on my life. Fitness is just what I do for fun. Today, after the…
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The Arrogant Me

This weekend when I was at a CrossFit competition, I made a smart aleck remark regarding my weakness in a certain area. I don’t remember the specifics, but it was a lightning rod for stares and rebuke from my colleagues who are frequently on my case about “Negative Self Talk”. One coach even went…
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My Father’s Face

Years ago I bought a Leo Kottke album entitled “My Father’s Face”. The title is taken from one song called “Jack Gets Up”. This song that I listened to fifteen to twenty years ago has begun to haunt me. In the song, Kottke laments the grind of daily life. He seems to be frustrated with…
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The Value of Rituals

I place a great deal of value on rituals. There are some things whose ways are timeless. Rituals bring with them a sense of place; a level of comfort. The frying pan in the photo is symbolic of ritual. Suzanne gave me this pan forty-three years ago. It cost over $100 in 1980. We were…
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Shock and Awe

For years I used to stop by Cafe Ziba on the way to work. I’d get a Latte, a cookie or two, and a muffin; carb heaven (or hell). When Farzad sold the shop to Acton Coffee House, my behavior continued unabated. All the regular customers were there every morning, on the same schedule. We…
